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FORGIVENESS IS GOOD FOR ME
Sunday, February 15, 2009

I go through life living with the certainty that people who hurt me deserve to be punished,not forgiven.What's more,I feel that it is me who have to deliver this punishment; that it is my GOD-given duty to smite these cruel souls on behalf of all good people on the planet.
The sad truth is this:I can live without the forgiveness of the people I have wronged but
without being able to forgive the people who wrong me,I DIE


Forgiveness is not forgetting
By forgiving the people who hurt us,we are not erasing the painful past experiences from our memory.We cannot forget nor should we.Those experiences,and even the pain they caused,have a great deal to teach us,both about not being victimised again and about not victimising others.
Forgiveness is not self-sacrifice
Forgiveness is not tolerance or "being nice".There is no such thing as half-hearted forgiveness.We either forgive or we don't.
Forgiveness is not a clear-cut decision
Forgiveness cannot be forced,and no matter how sincerely we want to let go of the past,we cannot schedule it to happen next week, next month or even next year.Forgiveness is what happens naturally as a result of confronting painful past experiences and healing the wounds.

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